"You can't un-ring a bell"
People are fond of saying:
"You can't un-ring a bell", and whilst that may be true, you can certainly smother its ring under the dull roar of conjecture and lies.
BUT; some words ring out like church bells, rising above the den calling us to the truth…
Some words are immortal, long buried or Even burnt. They are destined to reborn like a phoenix rising from the ashes; and when they do it can literally take your breath away...
It's our COMMITMENT to our CHOICES...
Some say that our lives are defined by some of our choices, but it isn't really our choices who distinguish who we are, it's our commitment to them!
For some commitment is like faith, the chosen devotion to another person, or an intangible ideal.
For me commitment has a shadow side, a darker drive that constantly asks the question:
"How far am I willing to go?"
People come and go, people can't see clearly because they entertain dark clouds of their past, making an obsession of yesterdays skins'....
Then a darker drive ask the question again: "How far am I willing to go?"
THOUGHT ON RELATIONSHIPS
After a days thought of relationships of the past few months, whether friendship or love orientated; after I experienced incidents that caused an uneasiness, I came to the conclusion:
Pressure impacts relationships in one of two ways: it either tears people apart or strengthens their connection binding them tightly in a calm objective...
We create our own destiny….
Your life is a gift, accept it! No matter how screwed up or painful it seems to be: Some things are going to work out as if they were destined to happen (as if they were JUST meant to be)…...
You can't try to controll most of everything:
Life is in the greys for the most part, and if you're going to insist on the Black's and White's...... You are going to be very unhappy. You cant try to controll most of everything.
(it sounds like a convenient philosophy)