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Soulmate Explained
Unconditional Love and Partnership 
Loving can heal; Loving can mend your soul
Love ΐs the only thing we take with us when we die!
(anyone grasp the magnitude of this?)

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I found my  soulmate
ˈsəʊlmeɪt/ <noun>
a person ideally suited to another as a best friend or romantic life partner. 
(in our case  best friend & romantic lifelong partner)


The epitome of love and partnership. In our fast-paced incoherent world, which vaunt all sorts of different people, we find ourselves scoop through more relationships than we'd like in order to find that one person who you can call the “key to your lock”. Blessed indeed - I found the key to my lock!  The search ΐs over!






Years-on-end, basically ever since I discovered the idea of a “lifelong-associate / comrade”. I’ve been convinced that the bigger Source in my life will attend to my request in the most suitable and perfect time for my heavenly matched partner.  I knew that it’ll happen quick, without warning and the appearance will be in the most unexpected way".

 The feeling when you are comfortable with the words “Us two against the world, FOREVER”.


SOULMATE...
… the one who believes in me even more than I believe in myself,
… the one who is constantly close by to listen, to understand, to care, to comfort and
 make me feel safe.
… the one I can trust with my deepest desires and fears, be my safe-space and who always wants the best for me.
... the one who loves me without any conditions and will never leave me... 
                                                        no judgement
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The Genesis 

Social media never ruled my life, but when the "feeling isolated" sensation surfaced it was a comfortable way of interaction throughout my busy and demanding life. I went through phases where I derived ᏢᏞᎬᎪsuᏒᎬ out of Facebook for a month λήδ then took a break from it for a while.  In the active period I will ignore the friend-requests for some time until my finger accidentally touch the red 19 above the two figurines λήδ I get this whole list; then the phone rings, you get busy with your daily rituals λήδ forget about the requests.  It was a stretch of “I’m not feeling these requests” that I clicked on the icon λήδ Andre’s name was on top of the list.  Unlike any other requests I got this gut-feeling “This ΐs something” when I saw his profile pic.  A one-liner message from him confirmed the “This ΐs it” sensation I longed to feel since the first day I could use my mind to understand the concept of a life-companion.  

During the long search I heard the words "stop searching, stop looking and stop seeking your soulmate because when the soul is ready the soulmate will appear” a million times, without understanding the inauguration of the growth λήδ timing connected to this blessing, I realised that when your soul is really ready to have a soulmate relationship, in the form of a romantic life partner, and the cycle for personal growth and expansion ΐs complete, the door is opened for that partner to come into your life.

34 years of Universal Lectures 
Part of the 34 year Universal Lecture was for me to understand that the best way of meeting your life-partner ΐs to work on yourself, which ΐs much tougher than physical work.  I’ve been busy with this process for the past 10 years, mainly with a life-couch, every self-help book I could lay my hands on, growth studies, the occasional seminar λήδ everything possible that caused my soul to expand λήδ grow.  I grew λήδ evolved spiritually (as this ΐs where all blessings are born) λήδ succeeded to the alignment to our Divine Source.  If you practice λήδ set a goal to reach this point you grow on all levels of your life: Spritiually, Intellectually λήδ emotionally.  Only then you create space for all the blessings λήδ heart-desires to appear miraculously in your life. My life use to be cluttered with my business, social obligations, social media, the chase to “more, more, more”.  When your life ΐs too hectic, the Heavens understand that there’s no time for anyone new in your life, even less for just a romantic partner, not even mentioning the “soulmate” we all long for.  

De-clutter, de-stress, and focus on yourself and become whole. You cannot manifest a soulmate romantic relationship if you are incomplete, or need someone to complete you, because you will need to be solidly grounded within your being to work with the challenges a soulmate romantic relationship can bring into your life.



How I knew Andre ΐs “the one“

Unconditional: We settled for each other's strengths λήδ weaknesses. No relationship/marriage is perfect, and even soulmate relationships will experience ups and downs. The bond ΐs uncrushable. Soulmates has an easier time of accepting, even learning to love each other's imperfections. I thought I will never meet someone who will fit into my life, lifestyle λήδ accept my flaws, specially my love-handles, morning breath λήδ fetish for body-ink.  The Universe showed me the contrary of my egocentric-conditioned perception.  Your relationship is more likely to be a soulmate match if you both love each other exactly as you each are, accepting both the great and inferior tendencies we all have.

Cognizance - you get each other: No questions asked, just do it λήδ your partner ΐs okay with it.  You finish each other’s sentences λήδ the best example of how I knew:  I start asking a question with the word “Love?” λήδ I get the reply “The answer ΐs yes”

It's intense: A soulmate relationship may be more intense than normal relationships, in both good and sometimes bad ways. The most important thing is that, even during negative episodes, you're focused on resolving the problem and can see beyond the bad moment.

Just the two of us: Soulmates often see their relationship as "us against the world." They feel so linked together that they're ready and willing to take on any feat of life, so long as they have their soulmate by their side. Soulmate relationships are founded on compromise and unity above anything λήδ everything else.

You're mentally inseparable: we have a connection similar to twins. Though life λήδ work may keep us apart at times, our minds will always be in tune.

You feel secure λήδ protected: No insecurities rises. Andre will always make me feel secure and protected. We make each other feel like we have a guardian angel by our sides. A person who plays on your insecurities, whether consciously or subconsciously, is not your soulmate. Most of us experienced this several times during this lifetime.  

Not one day:  A soulmate is not someone you can walk away from. It is someone you can't imagine being without, a person you believe is worth sticking with (the whole vow thing... For better and worse, in sickness and in health).

Eye contact: Looking a person in the eye when speaking denotes a high level of comfort and confidence. It comes naturally from the deep-seated connection between soulmates no matter the situation or conversation. 


In his Touch: No need to say more!


You never have to choose between forever λήδ always when you found your soulmate!
YOU JUST KNOW IT!
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